I’m so selfish, right?

My SIL is pregnant.  I just found out last night.  They have been trying for awhile now and finally got pregnant through IVF.  I am so happy for them.  I really am, but I’m so sad for me.  I feel incredibly selfish that I can’t been 100% happy and not even think about myself, but I can’t.


4 thoughts on “I’m so selfish, right?

  1. (((hugs))) You know what? You’re being awfully hard on yourself. I think you’d be less than human if you didn’t have some selfish thoughts. Don’t minimize the ordeal that you’ve been through, don’t feel bad that you feel bad sometimes, KWIM? But, try not to let it keep you from being happy for SIL,too. A fine line to walk, I know, but you can do it.

  2. OMG! I totally thought I commented on this and kept seeing “1 comment” and thought it was mine. I’m so sorry.

    I’d like to echo what Erika said. ((hugs))

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